MENtal Strength

Insights for men about self-mastery, well-being and thriving relationships

These articles are intended to help men navigate the challenges of modern life, be their best, and build the relationships they want to have.

Michael Giles Michael Giles

Find Peace Around Jerks and Enjoy Holiday Gatherings

Holiday gatherings can be a wonderful time to connect with loved ones, but they can also come with challenges—like dealing with that one person who always manages to push your buttons. Whether it’s a competitive in-law, a rude relative, or someone who thrives on creating tension, you don’t have to let them derail your holiday cheer. This guide offers practical strategies to help you stay calm, set boundaries, and even find moments of joy—no matter how obnoxious Cousin Bob gets.

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Michael Giles Michael Giles

For stronger relationships: less time, more purpose

Stronger relationships aren't about spending more time together—they're about spending it better. Discover why purposeful time matters more than passive time and how a balance of togetherness and independence can bring your connections to life.

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Michael Giles Michael Giles

Political affiliation is irrelevant to psychotherapy

Political beliefs shouldn't determine access to therapy. Yet, some therapists have drawn lines in the sand, refusing care based on ideology. How does this impact our profession's ethics? This article dives deep into the dangers of politicizing psychotherapy and offers a path forward to foster connection and growth across divides.

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Michael Giles Michael Giles

You don’t know her… and she doesn’t know you…

Think you know your loved ones inside and out? Think again. In this article explore how small, surprising moments can reveal untold stories and deepen your connections. Learn practical tips to spark curiosity, uncover new facets of those closest to you, and keep your relationships alive with discovery and meaning. It’s the perfect time to turn “predictable” back into “exciting.”

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Michael Giles Michael Giles

Just Us Guys: The Unique Potential of Therapy Between Men

Therapy between men offers a unique space for men to explore their experiences without judgment, navigate complex issues like vulnerability, and grow into more grounded, empathetic individuals in their relationships and lives.

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Michael Giles Michael Giles

Dealing with Anger, Part 3: Better Boundaries

Uncontrollable anger can mean you need better boundaries. Learn how aligning your boundaries with your core values can help you stop resentment from building up and prevent those explosive reactions. Take charge of your emotional well-being by setting boundaries that protect what matters most. #AngerManagement #HealthyBoundaries #EmotionalWellBeing

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Michael Giles Michael Giles

Discover What Your Anger is Telling You

Learn what your anger means. It's often a signal that one of your core values is being threatened. Learn how to use that insight to respond calmly and constructively, turning anger into an opportunity for growth and stronger relationships. Discover how to find peace of mind and stay true to your values, even in conflict.

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Michael Giles Michael Giles

Owning your Anger: A Path to Freedom, Not Suppression

Struggling to manage your anger? "Calming down" isn't the answer. In the first installment of our series on dealing well with anger, we explore conscious ownership—an approach that lets you allow the emotion without letting it control you. Learn how to experience anger peacefully, reclaim your focus, and notice how doing so changes your experience of anger.

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Michael Giles Michael Giles

4 Effective Tools for Dealing with ANGER

Popular advice like “just breathe” might calm you down, but it doesn’t solve the problem. In my new series, I’ll share four simple steps to help you deal with anger effectively—without suppressing it or losing control. Learn how to turn anger into a source of strength.

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