MENtal Strength
Insights for men about self-mastery, well-being and thriving relationships
These articles are intended to help men navigate the challenges of modern life, be their best, and build the relationships they want to have.
Weightlifting: A Tool to Confront Insecurities, Not Avoid Them
Many men struggle with insecurities despite feeling strong in the gym. This article deals with how weightlifting and hobbies can become tools to build emotional resilience. Learn how to confront, not avoid, your emotions and align your actions with your values for true strength.
How to say “No” —thinking differently about love and boundaries
This article reframes how think about boundaries so that they can be less frightening to set, and more effective. Many believe that the choice is either to be loving or have boundaries. This article presents a healthy alternative.
Men need to stop apologizing (for the most part)
Ever feel the urge to apologize just to keep the peace? Before you say 'I'm sorry,' ask yourself: Are you really in the wrong, or is something else at play? Discover when an apology is truly needed and when it's time to hold your ground.
Psychotherapy for Men: Accessibility and effectiveness
Most men seeking therapy aren't dealing with issues that are exclusive to their gender. However, they still need a therapist who can empathize with how men uniquely experience these issues.
Stop "Paying” her to Mistreat You
Feeling mistreated in your relationship? Learn how to stop "paying" for mistreatment by changing your response. Set boundaries, manage your emotions, and reinforce positive behaviors to create a healthier, more respectful dynamic. Discover practical steps to influence positive change in your relationship.
Advice I Won’t Give My Clients, Part 2
The second installment of advice that this therapist would give you, if I were responsible for how you live your life.
Candid advice from a men’s psychotherapist
Raw truths and game-changing advice for men's mental well-being in this no-nonsense article by a men’s psychotherapist. These aren’t things you HAVE to do… but if you want a better life, and better relationships, they are good steps to start with.
The best-kept secret about meditation
You might know something about meditation, but there’s a secret to it. Even though I’m sharing it, it’ll remain a secret to many. Learn why consistent meditation is one of the best investments you can make in your life.
Overcoming political derangement: It starts with me (and you)
In a world plagued by "Trump derangement" and polarized political views, it is crucial to respond with rationality and compassion, not only for the sake of societal harmony but also for our own mental well-being. By taking responsibility for our mental health through self-reflection, empathy, and cultivating understanding, we can strive towards a more inclusive and compassionate society.
Navigating Darkness, Embrace Truth: If I were Rust Cohle’s Therapist
In HBO's True Detective, Rust Cohle's mandated therapy session is daunting due to his skepticism and complex psyche. This article explains why my approach, focused on authenticity and embracing one's true self, is effective even with skeptical clients like Rust.