MENtal Strength

Insights for men about self-mastery, well-being and thriving relationships

A free article, every week, with the aim of helping men to do well.

These articles are intended to help men navigate the challenges of modern life, be their best, and build the relationships get want to have. New articles published Mondays at 9 am (Texas time). Check out the published articles below.

Michael Giles Michael Giles

A Healthy and Wise Response to Anti-male Attitudes

How men can deal well with anti-male attitudes, while focusing on their personal growth. Explore mythological insights, reject reactive misogyny, and learn practical strategies for fostering constructive dialogue and supportive networks. Empower yourself by embracing your identity and journey towards individuation.

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Michael Giles Michael Giles

Stop arguing—communicate effectively in your relationship

A common belief is that it's weak to let things be when someone says something upsetting, and that to be strong, we need to keep fighting for what we think is right. Absolutely, we need to state our positions. It's strong and healthy to give voice to our feelings and wants. But it's also strong to allow ourselves to pause once we've done so, even when we don't get the immediate response we desire.

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Michael Giles Michael Giles

How to respond to “weaponized incompetence”

If you’re concerned that your partner’s incompetence is a ploy to get out of doing shared tasks, it’s not a good idea to voice that accusation. In this article, we talk about to do instead.

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Michael Giles Michael Giles

This therapist’s birthday wish

Today, as I turn 45 years old, my wish is to more fully embrace the attitude that my life is not about what the world throws in my direction, but how I respond to it. I want to embrace this attitude with such conviction that I feel no desire for my troubles to vanish, but instead feel a sincere and complete gratitude for the challenges as opportunities to learn and grow stronger.

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Michael Giles Michael Giles

The dating wisdom of “Swingers”: Tell the truth.

Often, when we’re urgently needing a result, we’re not in the best state for achieving that result. This is most true when our goal is to connect with or influence others. Whether we’re calling it "neediness," "desperation," or “coming from a place of scarcity,” a state of urgent need doesn't empower you. You are not more likely to get the relationship, the friend, the job, the promotion or the client, when your urgent need has you behaving as if the option in front of you is your last chance.

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